Why is there a need to be in love ?

Its True That...

Hate Begets Hate.

By the same logic, it should be ...

Love Begets Love.

But It's a False.

Instead...

Love Begets Pain

LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL AS A ROSE ... and is a source of unimaginable pain when pricked by the fact of its failure.

Why is there a need to be in love ?

Can't our sole be peaceful enough to be in oneness of it's own. Why is there a need to call for it and make one's heart sprint with things it hasn't attempted before.

Sanidhya has messed it up!

He has disgraced himself of trying to attempt to have something which never belonged to him.

He knew it from before but still tried to make her own... Only qualifying to be a part of shame.

He now stays alone again!

Shadow Walk

Have you ever observed darkness?

It's lazy.

And its companion - 'Silence'.

And for her, it was to be her shadow.

Hershey was following her shadow as she strolled down the streets of Delhi.

It was midnight and she was numb to think of anything else, but her.

She walked one direction.

Her heart was thumping ...it thumped hard and the silence made her to attend to it with extreme vigor.

Trying to hold her heart with all the strength she had, she was making herself believe of what she does was incorrect.

Couldn't really though!.

Unable to tame her heart she knocked at her mind looking for a reason of validating her belief.

With each step she took, she tried to walk away from Sameers's thought. Unknowingly walking a step closer to him.

As water when beaten shudders only to merge with it again, sameer's thought to hershey's mind was the same.

Was sameer to be blamed for her emotional turmoil. No.

Neither suyash was!

She had been in love with suyash for long and they were looking at getting married.

It was time for her to look at herself assiduously.

Here is why i asked you - "ever observed darkness?"

Darkness enables you to befriend silence.

It allows you to meet and know yourself in complete.

Meeting Your Inner Self Can Be A Wonderful Introduction!

A striking difference that darkness has with daylight is that, the shadow it casts of you is darker than that in daylight.

And unlike daylight, where your shadow follows you, darkness allows you to follow your shadow.

Hershey's shadow was her inner self and that was what she has to follow.

Between Sheets of Power

Sleeping with power is the closest some women can get to acquiring it themselves. That may explain why men like Silvio Berlusconi become sexual magnets for younger women

If a powerful man exists, there’s got to be a woman somewhere waiting to sleep with him. Power is surely the most potent aphrodisiac in the world, as is evident from the numbers of beautiful women who gravitate towards powerful men. 

Apart from Italy’s prime minister Silvio Berlusconi, many other high-flying men are also famous for dallying around with young, beautiful women. Eighty-four-year-old Hugh Hefner, the founder of Playboy, has had a succession of younger girlfriends and now plans to marry a 24-year-old. Mick Jagger, the 60-something Rolling Stones icon, always has a young woman hanging onto his arm, and Donald Trump, the portly American business mogul, has a wife 24 years his junior. It’s easy to understand why women are drawn to powerful men.

After all, thousands of years of evolution have led us to seek out whoever offers us the best deal in life, even when it comes to mating. Charles Darwin was the first to make this connection by suggesting that our mating characteristics evolved and spread through populations depending on how much they improved our ability to reproduce. 

This process of “sexual selection” doomed the lesser males to an evolutionary dead end even as their powerful rivals passed their genes to posterity — so powerful men of high status throughout human history have attained very high reproductive success, leaving a large number of offspring, legitimate and otherwise. Moulay Ismail the Bloodthirsty, the last Sharifian emperor of Morocco, stands out quantitatively, having left more offspring — 1,042 — than anyone else on record. 

In any case, which woman wouldn’t want the benefits bestowed by social, economic and political power? Let’s face it, explicit power is still more or less a male prerogative, which is why the reverse situation — men being attracted to powerful women — just isn’t as commonplace. 

Many believe that women who gravitate towards men who have power do so because they’re held back by society from getting any of their own. Sleeping with power is the closest some women can get to acquiring it themselves; basking in reflected glory is not such a bad option after all. LIAISONS with famous and powerful men are a form of currency, providing women an entry point into public life. 

They can earn woman publicity; provide a lift to her pet causes (Jim Carrey girlfriend Jenny McCarthy’s battle against childhood vaccination certainly gained impetus); and act as a business opportunity: Seinfeld’s ex-girlfriend Shoshanna Lonstein had her own line of lingerie that was popular in large part because of her association with Jerry. This situation is perpetuated by all of us, who can’t help but give weight to the association. Apart from the huge high certain women get from luring a powerful man, females drawn to powerful males are on the lookout for safety.

Psychologists say that this sort of relationship is virtually sado-masochistic in nature, both at the interpersonal and sexual level. Being under the influence of a strong, controlling presence may evoke the feeling of safety and protection associated with childhood. In bed too, a submissive female partner enables the powerful male to live out his fantasies of dominance. 

This sexual submissiveness, say experts, is a psychological phenomenon referred to as “identification with the aggressor”. “This is a way used by such women to psychologically diminish their own sense of powerlessness, helplessness and sense of dependency that often has its roots in early life experiences and reflects fantasies connected to caretaking experiences that may have been traumatic,” says Madhu Sarin, a Delhi-based psychoanalyst in private practice. Those who can’t resist the lure of a rich, powerful man rubbish this notion. 

They insist that money acts like an aphrodisiac, that a rich man is successful, confident and goes for what he wants, which translates to being fantastic in bed. This is supported by a new scientific discovery about human sexuality — that the number and frequency of a woman’s orgasms is directly related to her partner’s wealth. So those of us who may have taken consolation in the notion that the beautiful women involved in relationships with powerful men were doing it for the lifestyle, and simply enduring the sex, are going to be disappointed. In this case, the honey truly lies with the money.

WHY POWERFUL MEN INDUCE MORE ORGASMS

Women's ability to have powerful orgasms must have an evolutionary basis, say psychologists Thomas Pollet and Daniel Nettle of the University of Newcastle, UK. They believe everything about the way we flirt, court, have sex and bring up our children is strongly influenced by our genetic history. Powerful orgasms among women, they say, must have evolved for a reason. It could be an evolutionary adaptation that serves to discriminate between males on the basis of their quality. If so, then it should be more frequent in females paired with high-quality males.

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White World

Title ' White World' courtesy film named auro, starring Mr. Bachhan where he constructs a  globe which milks pure white in colour with unseen boundaries. The imagination is hard to be carved in actual reality, having single boundary  just that of the seashores and the letters posted by the waves informing of the romantic weathers that sets in from time to time.

Revelations from wikileaks, which may be convincing, makes me to think hard on the very existence of diversified human race (holistically) which though one, are ever ready to cut throats of their opponents and sew to patch divides.

The leaks up till now has cued confusions and latent discomfort within democracies and related subjects under purview. Alternately tracking the happenings due to these leaks, i feel that we should strive to be a part of  a "mass of common's" with no regional dialect, political ambitions, geographical conquest and other drives which may lead to global imbalance.  

As i write this article, wanting to support the thought propagated, latently i am confident of its impracticality; such is the satire attached to the thought.

Just wish that what i've been taught in profession of how to make impossible as I M Possible, someone somewhere is able to rewrite the script of our world contrary, to the creation of today's complex world.

Prostitution- White Collard

Prostitution- What is it?...

A naive thought may confine it into crude terms as " offering sex". But, a few may think the way i may put it now by saying that, prostitution is something which every one relates to now-a-days and we all are prostitutes.

Being a white collard employee i often feel that i am too a part of clean prostitution. 'Clean' since well educated, sophisticated but possessing those basic qualities which a prostitute may have.

Reasons and Similarities:

- Its mandatory for an employee to sell himself during interviews, same as a prostitute may do to entice her customer.
-On loyalty meter employees fail to score since they are least loyal esp. when it gets down to aspire for packages.
- As a prostitute a woman is okay with the concept of being fucked by multiples her entire life and as professional we cannot argue with our gods against working during odd hours.
-At the time when she droops down and no one to avail her service its time for her to retire, which again is same in case of professionals. Companies expect horses and not stagnant working machines to be a part of their work chain.

Above, only are a few similarities and i am sure reading this crude article you are remembered of a few more.

To conclude, to hate those being in prostitution and the profession as a whole do get reminded of your doings and the situations which you may be a subject as similar to those in 'Real Fleshy World'.


Hate the profession and not the professional!!

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Blood Diamond-Ensure your Purchase isn't one of those

WHAT ARE CONFLICT DIAMONDS?

Conflict diamonds are diamonds illegally traded to fund conflict in war-torn areas, particularly in central and western Africa. The United Nations (UN) defines conflict diamonds as "...diamonds that originate from areas controlled by forces or factions opposed to legitimate and internationally recognized governments, and are used to fund military action in opposition to those governments, or in contravention of the decisions of the Security Council." These diamonds are sometimes referred to as "blood diamonds."

BACKGROUND

Conflict diamonds captured the world's attention during the extremely brutal conflict in Sierra Leone in the late 1990s. During this time, it is estimated that conflict diamonds represented approximately 4% of the world's diamond production. Illicit rough diamonds have also been used by rebels to fund conflicts in Angola, Liberia, Ivory Coast, the Democratic Republic of Congo and the Republic of Congo (also known as Congo Brazzaville). (read more)

Today, the flow of conflict diamonds has been reduced to considerably less than 1%.

ELIMINATING CONFLICT DIAMONDS

Today 74 governments have enshrined into their national law the Kimberley Process Certification System, and now more than 99% of the world's diamonds are from conflict free sources. However, even one conflict diamond is one too many. The diamond industry continues to work with governments, NGOs and the UN to strengthen the Kimberley Process and the System of Warranties.

In July 2000, the global diamond industry made clear to the international community its zero tolerance policy towards conflict diamonds. Dedicated to eradicating the trade in conflict diamonds, it worked closely with the United Nations, governments and non-governmental organizations (NGOs) such as Global Witness and Partnership Africa Canada to create the Kimberley Process Certification System. This system was formally adopted in 2003 and guards against conflict diamonds entering the legitimate diamond supply chain. The diamond industry also adopted a voluntary System of Warranties to assure consumers that their diamonds are from sources free of conflict.

While diamonds have been used to fund conflict, the problem is not the diamonds themselves but the rebels who exploit diamonds (along with other natural resources) to achieve their illicit goals. The vast majority of diamonds come from countries at peace. These countries have been able to invest the revenue from diamonds into the development of infrastructure, schools and hospitals for the good of the communities in which diamonds are found. These countries include Australia, Botswana, Canada, Namibia, Russia, South Africa and Tanzania.

Today, more than 99% of the world's diamonds are now from conflict free sources and are officially traded under the UN mandated Kimberley Process. (read more)

"Diamonds are a unique resource, evoking beauty and eternal love. In recent years, pictures of maimed children have threatened to overwhelm these traditional positive images, when rebel groups in Africa used diamonds to finance their wars and unspeakable brutalities against civilian populations. Aroused by these conflicts, the international community mobilized to ensure people living in countries with abundant diamond deposits receive the benefits of their patrimony. 

Conflict diamonds came to the attention of the world media during the extremely brutal conflict in Sierra Leone in the 1990s. The UN, governments, the diamond industry and non-governmental organizations (such as Global Witness, Amnesty International and Partnership Africa Canada), recognized the need for a global system to prevent conflict diamonds from entering the legitimate diamond supply chain and thus helping to fund conflict.

Under the Kimberley Process, diamond shipments can only be exported and imported within co-participant countries in the Kimberley Process. No uncertified shipments of rough diamonds will be permitted to enter or leave a participant's country. This ring-fences conflict diamonds and as such ensures they are unable to enter the legitimate diamond supply chain and thus, cannot be used for illegitimate purposes.

Outraged in the late 1990's that proceeds from diamond sales financed arms purchases and prolonged insurrections, in Sierra Leone and Angola, which were some of the most brutal of the past decade, the international community acted. By 2003 the international community through the participants in the Kimberley Process, bringing together industry, governments and civil society, mobilized governments to ban trade in rough diamonds funding African conflicts. Called the "Kimberley Process Certification Scheme" the ban ended those African conflicts financed by "blood" diamonds. Based on the respect for human dignity, the negotiators found the following common interests to win support for an international ban on trade in rough diamonds used to finance war and rebellion: 

·         First, in memory of those who died in Sierra Leone, in Angola, in the Democratic Republic of the Congo and other African countries in conflicts fueled by rough “Conflict’ Diamonds;”

·         Second, to end the killing in on-going conflicts in Africa;

·         Third, to save the children of Africa whose lives would be threatened by future conflicts fueled by conflict diamonds;

·         Fourth, to ensure those countries which depend on diamonds for their development and economic well-being will benefit from their patrimony; and

·         Fifth, to assure consumers the diamonds they wish to enjoy are without the taint of conflict.

THE KIMBERLEY PROCESS

In November 2002, 52 governments ratified and adopted the Kimberley Process Certification System, which was fully implemented in August of 2003.

Kimberley Process participants undergo periodic reviews, along with peer monitoring to ensure compliance. Furthermore, all rough diamond sales are independently audited, and are also subject to separate governmental regulations. Any country that is found not to be in compliance can be sanctioned by the Kimberley Process.

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Today, 74 governments, in partnership with the diamond industry and NGOs, are committed and legally bound to the UN-mandated process. Kimberley Process participants currently account for well over 99% of the global production of rough diamonds.

Through the worldwide implementation of the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme we have begun to fulfill the international community's obligation to those who have suffered in Africa's wars by banning the trade in conflict diamonds. We have eliminated conflict diamond financing in Sierra Leone and are committed to bring the proceeds from the diamond trade to benefit the people of Sierra Leone, Angola and Liberia as well as all other diamond producing countries such as Botswana to help themselves support economic development of their countries."

- Ambassador J.D. Bindenagel, Former U.S. Special Negotiator for Conflict Diamonds

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They developed an agreement called the Kimberley Process, which requires participating governments to ensure that each shipment of rough diamonds be exported/imported in a secure container, accompanied by a uniquely numbered, government-validated certificate stating that the diamonds are from sources free of conflict.